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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-09-13 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #6461 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6461 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Well I don't enjoy regular porn with women in it because I can tell they're all faking (and it's aimed at men).

M/M fic feels like it's directly aimed at my perversions. And if a character gets hurt emotionally or physically, I have a level of remove and am glad it's not happening to a woman, who are exploited for stuff like this in SO many movies and shows, mostly for the manpain.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not talking about porn, that's a matter of sexuality. I don't care for a lot of M/F or F/F porn either. But just reading about something that features women in general being "too close to home" is what confuses me.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
Here's a secret: More women than like to admit it only read fanfic if there's going to be porn in it. It used to not be a secret, and fic writers who wrote more G and PG level fics would be open about how discouraging they found it. Now fandom is puritan so there's a lot less of this open sentiment, but you can still confirm by seeing which fics have the most Kudos in a fandom on AO3. They're almost always M or E. So yes if you're not talking about just porn, your statement may as well not apply to a probable majority of fandom. "I like men" means "I like to read about men fucking" in fandom.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
I stay far away from fandom puritans and am in spaces where if people are talking about porn instead of genfic, they specify it. I'm sorry if level-headed attitudes like that are rare now but you don't have to be pedantic.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
I am in a lot of ships for porn and or romance. That is all.
I am interested in female characters when it gen or if I like f/f or f/m ship I just skip porn most of the time. I just don't want reading about body similar to mine.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't want to read about me, and if I read f/f or female pov I can't help but projecting me onto it and I get frustrated with how dumb and wrong it is or get uncomfortable with how right it is. Write the same exact character pov but make it male and I don't have that problem.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 02:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Canon female characters aren't *you*, though? Is having the same gender really enough to maje you automatically project onto them?

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
yes.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes.
Also I have this expectations that I should understand female experience and I don't

(Anonymous) 2024-09-14 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
After a lifetime of only having one female character per show/movie, yeah. It's a reflex now.