[ SECRET POST #6461 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6461 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It's very easy to believe. Women don't want to read about other women because they're taught to hate themselves and live up to impossible standards, and end up with lots of subconscious insecurities that they can escape from in fiction. Men are taught that they're the default and being mediocre is fine, so they just don't grow up with the internal baggage about self-inserting that women do.

And for nuance, no, not all women deal with this issue by not wanting to read about women. There's still plenty of popular m/f media for women who like to self-insert as another woman, like romance novels and female-targeted dating sims.

[(Anonymous)]

And for nuance, no, not all women deal with this issue by not wanting to read about women. There's still plenty of popular m/f media for women who like to self-insert as another woman, like romance novels and female-targeted dating sims.

Given the target demos for these two groups, respectively (overwhelmingly queer per AO3's many surveys and overwhelmingly straight) I'd say there's probably a reason one finds projection so uncomfortable and the other is more fine with it. Speaking as a queer woman and having talked to many others about this, straight female romantic fantasy is so completely unrelatable it might as well have been written by an alien. (As is a lot of "f/f" as written by dudes to be totally honest.) That "m/m" is the projection onto and beginnings of expression of affection for fellow women in many cases, as we're told what "women" think and feel in romantic situations and relationships and it's so utterly at odds with what we do that it's easier to imagine men having the feelings we feel.