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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-09-22 04:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #6470 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6470 ⌋

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Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
You're missing my point and applying antagonism where I do not intend it.

I alluded to a lot of what you mentioned in my above post. And you accidentally landed on my larger point when you mentioned 'fantasy,' another thing I noted in my response.

Whose fantasy? Women's. Which, again, is OK! But their fantasy isn't concerned with the inner world of actual gay and bisexual men.

Again, it's lit for women, written by women, and that's great. I'm not saying they can't create what they want. But they are flooding the M/M market with something that bears little connection to living, breathing gay/bisexual men and our experiences. They are writing about those groups without concern for them or their voices and replacing them with their own as if they speak from them. RATHER THEY MEAN TO OR NOT.

That's the real issue.

You can obviously disagree, but this has been an issue in the gay/bisexual male community for some time now. And from your response, that seems to surprise you (you called it a weird take). I highly recommend you take the time to research the issue further. You can find years' worth of discussion on the topic if you care to.

Have a good night.

NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 08:23 am (UTC)(link)
Quit speaking for all gay/bi men. I find "hygiene, diet, pre-prep and clean-up" boring as all get out. Your corner echo chamber is just as bad as what you're condemning. Fuck off.

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 09:27 am (UTC)(link)
Wow! Jesus Christ, Not op but are you really telling a gay or bi person to shut up? Really? Somehow, I doubt your either. No queer person would silence another. I bet your a salty het swerving wildly out of your lane so you suck off other whiny hets invading spaces they don't belong in! Did you vote for Trump too?LOL!

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Mm, nope, I am entitled to tell a gay dude he is fucking stupid if what he is saying is fucking stupid. We don't do that "How dare you speak over XYZ" shit here.

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course your homophobic. Can't say I'm surprised. LOL

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
My homophobic what?

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Your homophobia isn't in question. Own it, dear!

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Your homophobic grammar probably :D I don't think they know it

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Queer people silence each other all the time, my guy. I don't know how many times I've heard my fellow gay men tell lesbians to sit down and shut up. Or hell, how transmascs get treated by queers as well as TERFs.

But nice way to accuse me of being homophobic when I'm calling out the well-known misogyny among gay men. But no, I'm not het. I'm sorry I ruined your fantasy of all gay men being nice and sweet and understanding to each other?

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure you are, sweaty. Sure, you are. LOL

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-24 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever actually met a gay man, Karen?

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-24 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Do I need to start linking queer infighting before you listen, Kevin?

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-24 12:12 am (UTC)(link)

"Surely, No True Scotsman would disagree with me," cried the hypersensitive narcissist.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 08:35 am (UTC)(link)
You can't pretend you're saying women's fantasies are okay if you're also accusing them of flooding the market. At best, you're saying women can have their fantasies but keep them to themselves. Which is all an imaginary concern to begin with, because there's a huge market for m/m written by men. Maybe you just haven't noticed because you only read fanfic. Or maybe it bothers you so much that any female-written published m/m exists at all that your mind magnifies the amount that exists into an amount capable of drowning out everything by men.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
I am not even going into the whole whataboutmen of this all where you say that fantasies are okay but not like this, because this stupid girls. I just really "love" you implying that women do not know what anal sex is.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
Why do straight white women always gotta Karen their way into everything?

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
If you are AYRT before it's no wonder you are so wrong about gay/bi men writing about prep. You consider me "straight white woman" for only reason of not liking my comment. (I am only one of those but it doesn't even matter)

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-23 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Straight women are gonna straight women I guess. Stay in your lane, Karen!

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2024-09-24 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
The only Karen in this thread is you.

You're a straight white woman pretending to be a gay man in order to win internet arguments. Go suck your husband's dick and stop fucking things up for queer people, you dumb cunt.