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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-07 06:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #6485 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6485 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-07 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding this. One of my favorite 'being bisexual means...' posts from forever ago was something like: "As a bisexual woman I'm attracted to most other women, fictional men, and the one dude who was nice to me at the 7-11 at 3am in 1995" Because I felt that one in my bones.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2024-10-07 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I hate how often that post is trotted out as representative. It’s one step removed from the political lesbians, and they’re absolute chodes.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-08 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
No opinion on that post but that is such a perfect comment on political lesbians. I once lived in a house share with three of them and I naively thought we'd get along great because we're all lesbians! Turns out we didn't mean the same thing by that...

Yeah, they're absolute chodes.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-08 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
That post has made a lot of bi women feel deeply invalidated. The "most women" part as well. One of my friends is just attracted to women more few and far between than men. And as an asexual, honestly most women aren't more attractive than men in the physical sense. People who are attracted to women (or men) just have the bias of finding them more attractive.

If you're really not attracted to real men, you're probably not bi. You can be attracted to men and dislike most of them, but the initial attraction would still be there when you saw an attractive man.