[ SECRET POST #6485 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6485 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I think this is just common sense if you're a woman (cis or trans, doesn't matter). A lot of straight and bisexual women are tired of IRL men or just not into dating.

[(Anonymous)]

* Forgot to add "that I know", lmao.

[(Anonymous)]

Seconding this. One of my favorite 'being bisexual means...' posts from forever ago was something like: "As a bisexual woman I'm attracted to most other women, fictional men, and the one dude who was nice to me at the 7-11 at 3am in 1995" Because I felt that one in my bones.

[feotakahari]

I hate how often that post is trotted out as representative. It’s one step removed from the political lesbians, and they’re absolute chodes.

[(Anonymous)]

No opinion on that post but that is such a perfect comment on political lesbians. I once lived in a house share with three of them and I naively thought we'd get along great because we're all lesbians! Turns out we didn't mean the same thing by that...

Yeah, they're absolute chodes.

[(Anonymous)]

That post has made a lot of bi women feel deeply invalidated. The "most women" part as well. One of my friends is just attracted to women more few and far between than men. And as an asexual, honestly most women aren't more attractive than men in the physical sense. People who are attracted to women (or men) just have the bias of finding them more attractive.

If you're really not attracted to real men, you're probably not bi. You can be attracted to men and dislike most of them, but the initial attraction would still be there when you saw an attractive man.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this is me chiming in as a straight woman who's tired of IRL men. You never have to worry about a fictional one ghosting you, or being a jerkwad for whatever reason, being selfish in bed, a slob who expects you to pick up after him, someone who is just soooooo clueless they don't know what to get you for Christmas and can't be bothered to figure it out but hopes you've splurged on that big ticket Lego set they've been yearning for and hinting about and btw hope you enjoy this bath lotion set from Dollar Tree, etc. etc.

Fictional men are low maintenance and when you're done they go back into your mental harem for next time.

[(Anonymous)]

Yep!

[(Anonymous)]

cisgender woman chiming in that yes, we're tired of a lot of cisgender men and prefer to die alone.

[(Anonymous)]

This so much. Dying alone as a childless cat lady or choosing the bear are both preferred options to men for me. I'm just tired of digging through trashfires in hopes of that genuine Nice Guy.

[(Anonymous)]

DA
Add in me seeing and hearing relationships where after marriage or a few years the Nice Guy turns into just another dude who wants mommy to clean and cook for him (and it can/does turn abusive).

Like, even "waiting for the right guy" can backfire.