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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-11-14 06:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #6523 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6523 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-11-15 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
It's been five years since I've spoken to my MIL and I regret nothing. Life is more peaceful with far less drama without her. If you're familiar with r/JustNoMIL, she's nowhere near that bad, just extremely immature and self-centered. I suspect she's got some sort of undiagnosed personality disorder and is certainly a narcissist if not a Narcissist(PD). She's got a whole collection of recurring irritating behavior, including lying, demanding your time and attention unless she's dating some new scumbag loser and then she has no time for you, being a tactless and rude loudmouth saying assholish things and then pouting and crying because she didn't mean it and how could you do something so unreasonable as to want to hold her accountable for her own behavior while simultaneously being super sensitive about rejection and anything negative she perceives other people saying/thinking about her. If she wants something, then she's entitled to whatever that is and if you don't give it to her or make it happen for her, you're a terrible person who hates her and is trying to punish her for some petty reason.

She has very little power because she's got no financial hold over us, my husband has zero time or patience for her thanks to a childhood full of emotional neglect and abandonment, and she doesn't live in our city and can't drive so she can't do surprise visits. She has few friends because she likes to use people up for money, rides, whatever until they get tired of being treated like a servant and ghost her. A few years ago I got sick of her constant stream of self-pitying BS over imagined slights and told her that I'd call her out each and every single time and not to speak to me unless she could act like a mature, responsible adult. It's been mostly silence since then, with occasional guilt-tripping e-mails or birthday cards addressed to my husband (who never speaks to her) only, because she's too stupid to grasp that it was ME who facilitated any relationship she had with her precious son, and since she pissed me off, I decided to quit trying to do nice things for her and she can die lonely now.