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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-11-14 06:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #6523 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6523 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-11-15 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
HS friend who I always had a tumultuous relationship with. They messaged me on FB when I declined their friend request. Most mature friendship breakup because after I told them that I felt our relationship was best kept in the past they told me they appreciated my response and respected my truth. We haven't talked to each other since.

Fandom friend who would come in and out of my DMs, always inconsistent with communication. I decided to cut them out of my life after I met them at a con and the entire time I was with them they were incurious about me and...I don't know how to phrase it but I don't like to hang out with people who don't seem to enjoy my company. The meet-up along with a history of flakiness had me deciding this relationship wasn't worth investing in anymore.

Former coworker who I had a couple text exchanges with who I felt was fake as fuck. When I texted her she brushed me off. But the moment she heard my workplace was hiring suddenly she's texting me, asking me about my family. *eyeroll* I was definite with not engaging with her when a coworker of mine out of nowhere began asking why I wasn't responding to our former coworker's texts.
What business is it of yours?
So disgusted with that bitch trying to get a third person involved.
I'm not some sad desperate lonely girl who wants everyone's approval.
If you don't respect me or like me, don't fucking be a fake ass bitch who thinks they can use me whenever the fuck they want.

My older sister learned the hard fucking way that my patience and kindness has a limit. Didn't cut her out but when she crossed boundaries with me, she felt the effects of me putting up even more boundaries with her. We had to talk a lot and I gave her room to learn and grow because she started going to therapy when I told her I can't be her sole source of help/therapy.

And I generally am not in touch with my dad's side of the family because as a child I was SA'd and groomed to believe it was fine for COCSA to happen. And the family in general is cultish and materialistic.