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fandomsecrets2025-01-27 07:02 pm
[ SECRET POST #6597 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6597 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)Lots of people never have the opportunity to learn better or have bigotry be a real thing that impacts people until they head to college and meet a much wider variety of people than there exists in their home town or neighborhood
I guess. I grew up in the bible belt surrounded by a family of rednecks but we still had Black neighbors and I had Black classmates and knew that racism was wrong. And even something as simple as sitcoms with gay characters is enough for a kid to be exposed to different things and realize that gay people exist. Not to mention the fact that I was reading constantly...it didn't take until college to realize there were people out there different than me.
I mean, maybe if someone grows up in a town that is 100% white and has zero access to books or TV, then maybe it's understandable that they'd end up thinking these things are okay, but that seems like an incredibly uncommon situation.
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)I'm willing to bet money that 95% of this community has, as kids or teenagers, likely before knowing any better:
- called something "gay" as an insult
- called something "retarded" or "special" as an insult
- called something "autistic" as an insult or used the word sperg as a verb
- called something or someone a "spaz" or "spastic"
- called someone a "pussy" or "bitch" to indicate cowardice or otherwise called something "girly" as an insult
- asked insultingly if someone who is obviously neither blind nor deaf, is blind or deaf
Tons of people, especially kids, can be bigots without realizing they are bigots.
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)The key word there is KIDS. I was talking about teenagers/early 20s, because that's the age range mentioned in the secret.
I have zero issue believing that kids (like middle schoolers or younger) use words that they overhear from adults or teenagers that they don't know are wrong, and I don't blame them for that.
My point was that TEENAGERS are old enough to know right from wrong.
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)I don't think anyone here is talking about people over 20, and none of those were mentioned in the secret.
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)But up to 20 no one is expected to know right from wrong? Really?
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(Anonymous) 2025-01-28 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)That's the majority of teenagers.
Not the ones I was friends with. Not to say I didn't know teenagers who said those things, but I didn't hang out with them because even back then I knew that behavior wasn't acceptable.