[ SECRET POST #6632 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6632 ⌋

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Comments

[thewakokid]

Its a privilege thing. No-one believes in redemption until they need it, no-one is willing to grant forgiveness until they have needed to be forgiven. Until you have been that low, you tell you're too good and noble and infallible to really ever need that level of atonement. And I think people resent the idea. Like other people are being given the gift of forgiveness, when the truly righteous - like me - would never have needed it and get no such reward.

[(Anonymous)]

That's fucked up. Growing up and working hard on yourself also means understanding that you need to respect other people's boundaries and do the work for yourself, not to get something from them because you made amends. People don't have to listen to your apologies, forgive you or keep you in their lives if they don't want to. You did the work for yourself or you haven't really learned anything.

[thewakokid]

Someone working through their own issues?

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Absolutely.

Most people on this comm have unresolved issues, and despite their supposed liberalism, are very punitive and authoritarian in how they think other people (but not themselves! It's different when it's them!) should be treated.

[thewakokid]

Well, I'm not the right person to rebuke anyone for trying to work through their issues on Fandom Secrets, so I guess this has to be an agree to differ kinda situation.

[(Anonymous)]

+100

[(Anonymous)]

Hey, an upside to the baked-in-your-bones feeling that there’s something wrong with you that you needed to make up for from the moment you were born.

I desperately want to grant forgiveness to others who are trying to be better because maybe if they deserve it, I might too, eventually.