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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-03-04 05:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #6633 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6633 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-03-05 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I get why this can be bothersome, but realistically, fans will do what they want in terms of fandoming.

I personally don't like putdowns as terms of endearment. I grew up in a hostile, non-love environment, so I am very sensitive to judgment and criticism. I try very hard to be mindful that when people do insults/putdowns as jokes or terms of endearment, but I can't help feeling hurt. I have worked a lot on processing emotions and evaluating reality vs my interpretations.
It's a reminder to be mindful of nuances in being a human being.
We can't always get joy from simple kindness. We can't always have our emotions fully considered and understood.

How much work is it to be upset and is it worth the time and energy?