[ SECRET POST #6648 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6648 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Abbott Elementary]



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Comments

Re: Any old business? (Responses to past days’ comments or secrets)

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I realized that I was unfair to my friend by positioning myself in the good guy role. And my friend has a habit of doing the same thing (they are the good guy from their POV). Neither of us wanted to be wrong. And because we can't reconcile that we both built up resentment.

My friend expected me to take responsibility for the tension, and I can't keep people pleasing just to make sure she is feeling good. I said that my feelings were hurt too, but she focused on the fact that her feelings were hurt more, and I found that unfair and deflecting accountability.

I have to let go of people who treat my relationship with them as a "me vs you" game in which they can never lose.

My friendship - and me as a person - is (am) not a game.

I'm not going to respond anymore.

I suspect the person who replied to me is projecting their own stuff onto me and because I'm admitting fault in my situation they are going to try to say mean spirited things as a means of putting me down more.

The whole kicking a dog while it's down sort of thing.

Re: Any old business? (Responses to past days’ comments or secrets)

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt I remember your 2 threads and you hate on commenters a lot, like you do in the last 3 paragraphs here. Farthermore you're not admiting to any faults. You're saying that you and your ex friend don't mesh well. You say that you've suffered from your ex friend treating you badly, all because you're too good and hate conflicts.

'Won't respond' is similar to drama queens who leave fandoms and sites declaring their exit because people don't value them enough. Don't reply if you don't want to but why all the drama?

Anyway congrats on making them ex. Always better to be honest.