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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-03-22 04:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #6651 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6651 ⌋

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Re: based on 1

(Anonymous) 2025-03-23 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
The one whose gamer group I had to leave because there were people there who weren't good for me (and IMO weren't good for them either, but it's not my place to tell someone who they should or shouldn't be friends with). I didn't tell them explicitly they couldn't talk to me outside the group, in fact I tried initiating conversations with them outside the group, but I guess if not for the group, they wouldn't have any internet activity at all... so, eh.

I'd known them for 20+ years at the time I left the group. I realized that maybe I was a little limerent on them in a platonic way. I feel like they were one of my best friends and we shared so many memories, but in hindsight, I don't think I was ever their first choice in anything. (Yes, I'm aware that sounds batshit or pathetic or something, but I just mean that, to me, besties do a lot of things together, but they were always "being besties" with someone else.)

Part of me thinks, if they'd just realize those other folks weren't great (due to talking behind their back, or bullying them in the past), we'd be great friends. But I know that's coming from a damaged part of me and is in no way the truth. So I think it's for the best that I left.