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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-03-30 02:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #6659 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6659 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-03-31 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
Your desire to help is admirable, OP. But a word of caution - even if your friend needs this help and wants this help, there's a chance that giving them money will alter your relationship and make things awkward. Through no one's fault! It's just that any time this happens, the potential for things to go wrong increases. First, I'd ask myself a few questions:

* Are you absolutely certain your friend is under strained financial circumstances? Like, verified through a reputable source that isn't merely what your friend reports?

* If you later find out that actually no, they're not under financial strain, how will that make you feel about giving them money?

* Similarly, if you later find out that they spent foolishly on something that wasn't a necessity (For example, they bought a $300 collectible instead of paying their rent), how will you feel about giving them money?

* What is the plan if they ask you for more money, or expect this free money to be a regular thing?