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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-04-30 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #6690 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6690 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-05-01 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
I think for people who are exclusively attracted to fictional characters, yeah, I feel like it's a mix of that and intimacy issues. The "aroace but into selfship" types make me uncomfortable for that reason, I had a phase where I only liked fictional characters as a result of some severe trauma. I have both irl and fictional crushes now and have been in a real relationship before, but I worry how some of this is a manifestation of these people wanting a relationship irl but are too scared to deal with the trials of being close to another real human. The betrayal, the rejection, the incompatibility and dealing with their ugly sides, the nine yards. I still struggle with intimacy due to abuse and neurodivergence, so even now that I am self aware I understand that this was coping for me. A lot of them want to fall back on the idea this is an "identity" or sexuality like being straight/gay/bi/pan etc. and not a coping mechanism, and I feel like it'd be healthy to admit the latter. It's not hurting anyone.