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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-04-30 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #6690 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6690 ⌋

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[Rugrats]



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[Kingdom Hearts]



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[Blood of Youth and Moonlight Mystique]



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(Anonymous) 2025-05-01 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
This is a hell of a lot of armchair psychology towards people who are just having fun and doing fandom in their own way. Like Jesus, let people be without assuming a whole bunch of shit about them that you can’t glean from stuff like this.

And I’m saying this as someone who doesn’t self ship at all, it’s not hurting anyone so it doesn’t matter.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-01 12:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Right? I considered myself plenty immature and I DON'T self-ship. I don't think it's an automatic indicator of emotional maturity.

And I hate to break it to ayrt, but it's also possible to crush on and pursue real life people you consider "safe." You know, basically invent an entire relationship that isn't there, or isn't at the level you tricked yourself into believing it is? Because forming a healthy, authentic bond with a good, compatible person who's actually available is foreign to you? It's called limerence. (Obviously, this is a general "you.")

(Anonymous) 2025-05-02 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
... I mean, people generally consider that weird and creepy too, so that's just reinforcing the point. They aren't crushing on the real person (who is in fact flawed and imperfect and who might say no if you actually asked them), they're crushing on an idealized version in their head.