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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-04-30 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #6690 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6690 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Rugrats]



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[Kingdom Hearts]



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[Blood of Youth and Moonlight Mystique]



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(Anonymous) 2025-05-01 11:59 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, I think, like anything, it depends on the individual circumstances. If it's unhealthy for one person to do it they should stop. If another has a healthy relationship with it, what's the issue? I don't like self-shipping. But i don't need to write a whole secret denouncing it and how sad it is. OP sounds like they are really trying to make themselves feel better for not being like 'that' fan
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[personal profile] paperghost 2025-05-01 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
+100

There are cases where it is unhealthy, like the people in Reddit communities who can't handle seeing ships with their character and act possessive as "the only one" who can have them. But people who just make OCs and draw them with canon characters? Who cares?

(Anonymous) 2025-05-02 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
I have to say that I have never encountered a selfshipper who was sane about it. Every single one I've run into has been one of the former variety, who went rabid at anyone else who dared to ship "their" character with someone else (often complete with a massive dose of homophobia aimed at people who wrote or drew that character in slash ships) or who didn't view the character exactly the same way they did (usually this happened when someone brought up a canon trait of the character's that made them less than perfect boyfriend material).

So maybe there are some people out there who can be rational about it, but if there are, I have yet to run into any of them.
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[personal profile] paperghost 2025-05-02 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
I know several who actively don't post in public communities because of how most are full of young unstable people who treat it like kinning, and those who don't use the labels due to the connotations and just post OCs. I have an OC/yume ship but keep it private for now because I dislike the wider community's approach. Especially the homophobia since I liked a canon female character for 2 years, I dealt with some women being weird in private spaces before.
Edited 2025-05-02 07:41 (UTC)