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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-05-02 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #6692 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6692 ⌋

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JKR didn't understand the picture. It's not about opression.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-03 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
I also think that demisexual is just normal but I'm not a psychologist so what do I know. Have aces spaces become toxic? The last I saw is a dating site for aces.

I found this - International Asexuality Day was founded in 2010 and takes place annually on 6 April to raise awareness of asexuality. This includes demisexual, grey-asexual and other ace identities.

Re: JKR didn't understand the picture. It's not about opression.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-03 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
Have aces spaces become toxic

Very. On a lot of asexuality-related sites, if you make some comment about not liking sex...you know, *because you're asexual*, you'll get dogpiled with comments about how "some asexuals totally love sex!!!11!!" and get called a gatekeeper for daring to suggest that disinterest in/dislike of sex is at all related to asexuality because ONLY "sexual attraction" matters, even though the only definition anyone can give contradicts itself, and that you can loooooooove sex, be unable to live without it, or even be a sex addict, and still be asexual, as long as you fit into the nebulous loophole of "not being sexually attracted to anyone".

Re: JKR didn't understand the picture. It's not about opression.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-03 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
An asexual sex addict, wow.

Re: JKR didn't understand the picture. It's not about opression.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-04 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Because the world would end if any old rando enters any spaces. taking up all them resources.

Re: JKR didn't understand the picture. It's not about opression.

(Anonymous) 2025-05-03 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
If you think demisexual is just normal, you're probably demisexual and don't know it. You feel that way and assume everyone else does, because it doesn't click with you that when they talk about their feelings, they're feeling them differently than you do. Until I was in my 20's, I thought "He's so hot" and "I'd fuck her" were expressions of the same thing I felt when I looked at someone attractive, which was... wow, that person is attractive, I love looking at them and I bet I would feel arousal if I were in the real position of being about to have sex with them! I didn't know that for most people, those statements were expressions of arousal in and of themselves. Look into it!