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⌈ Secret Post #6743 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm so sick of my family. They don't listen, don't help, and somehow always make things way more difficult than it needs to be. I fucking hate how they all expect me to be their mom - even my parents. And I'm so fucking tired of telling people I don't want to be a mom! Stop acting like you're five, grow the fuck up, take initiative to take care of yourself and the home you live in, instead of sulking because I dared ask you to do something that shouldn't need asking, and IDK...check in with me like I'm you sister/child. Stop coming to me only when you need help or holding resentment towards me because I can't read your mind and I'm not setting up your life for you so that you have a fun interesting life.
You sad that I don't check in with you?
Yeah, ask me how I feel about how you check in with me and then we'll see how deep this fucking resentment really goes.

Also fuck my workplace. So sick of people coming to me and asking me why I didn't make sure they don't make mistakes. Oh yeah, sorry that I didn't tell you to check the machine for the correct code before you worked on it, because you didn't check for the correct code before working on it and didn't catch that until a while after you started working and then you had to scrap a bunch of material.
Yeah, somehow that's my fault??
Fuck off into a ditch full of horse shit you fucking asshole.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Weaponized incompetence is one hell of a drug, and unfortunately, some people don't care about using others as long as no one calls them out on it.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

My sympathies, OP. Family dynamics like that are rough, because people get into the habit of leaning too hard on one person until they're not doing enough for themselves and at the same time guilt-tripping that one person for not wanting to love and support them 24/7 by self-immolating so they can be toasty warm. They're basically trying to infantilize themselves, and like the other nonny said, weaponized incompetence.

Bottom is it's bullshit, and maybe it's some comfort that some of us know that and see it. I'm sorry, and I wish you strength for those boundaries to protect yourself and your own mental and physical health.