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fandomsecrets2025-07-26 02:53 pm
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[ SECRET POST #6777 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6777 ⌋
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Re: Are you impulsive?
(Anonymous) 2025-07-27 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)Thanks for bringing an example so I can explain what I mean by I don’t believe in the divide of rational / impulsive
By all accounts she’s someone who speaks their mind (which frankly seems like autism to me so it could be as I said above mental illness) but maybe for them it’s something like, if I don’t speak my mind I can get anxious over being held accountable for agreeing with something I disagree. As for overspending they could have a relationship with the economy that’s like - I have a good pay so I need to spend or else who will. And it could be perfectly rational.
As a anxious person I am always thinking ahead and a lot, and as a traumatized person I have great reason to because most people who say things to “be helpful” are helping themselves only.
Re: Are you impulsive?
(Anonymous) 2025-07-27 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)Oh, I didn't realize you had trauma. You can keep being a dick then.
Re: Are you impulsive?
(Anonymous) 2025-07-27 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Are you impulsive?
(Anonymous) 2025-07-27 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)Sometimes anxious, traumatized people are very sensitive because they want a lot of understanding and compassion for themselves, in their time of need. That's fine. But don't go too far the other way and strain yourself making far too many allowances for assholes behaving like assholes. You're going to end up with a bunch of toxic people in your life if you do, and that won't help your mental health, either.
Re: Are you impulsive?
(Anonymous) 2025-07-27 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)