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[Trails to Azure]

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09. [WARNING for discussion of suicide/self-harm]

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I am absolutely with you on reading more self harm fics that aren't just cutting and suicide that isn't dramatic wrist slitting and dealing with it in a more comlicated or adult or nuanced manner. But you lose me at the addiction as self harm. I absolutely see where you're coming from and get it, but if I'm looking for self harm I'm not looking for self destructive behavior or addiction. For me those are all very different categories.

I'm with you, because addiction and destructive habits, while technically also being harmful to oneself, is not always meant as self-harm. I've known addicts who literally didn't consider the harm they do to themselves, some were at least conscious of what it did to others but that's the nature of addiction.

Agreed.

This one is kind of funny to me because I have a history of self harm and addiction and there is definitely overlap, but also they definitely pinged different parts of my brain. Like at one point the binging/purging became more of a self harm behavior for me rather than purely eating disorder motivated, and sometimes some of my self harm behaviors became more of an addiction, but I could tell when they switched over. They're all very different categories for me. But maybe that's because it's personal. I could see someone who has no experience with them just labeling it all as self harm.

I think it's too far in the other direction to declare that those behaviors are always different things and always NOT self-harm. Because sometimes they are.

Yeah, I said there was overlap.

Yeah, that makes sense.

The people I've known with drinking issues didn't actually mean to harm themselves. It was pleasure/escapism (and obviously, drinking is socially acceptable in many milieus so it's easy to fall into habits. I could hide PROBLEM drinking in social drinking easily).

and then you add in the whole "didn't realize what they were doing" component for a lot of people with these issues.

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