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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-10-06 06:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #6849 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6849 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-10-07 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people get really attached to the things that they like and/or feel, and don't know how to deal with other people disliking them, or liking them but in a different way, or having a different set of feelings about the same thing, or in general just having a different experience. It feels so intensely uncomfortable that they think it must be outright wrong, on a transcendent level. Combine that with the human need to view oneself as "good," and you have someone who feels as though they must seek moral language to describe what's actually no more than a difference in perspective and/or preferences.

I'm sorry you lost a friend over something like this.

(Anonymous) 2025-10-07 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
This. I also think there was a certain degree of viewing the ship as support for LBGQT+ relationships back in the day and some people felt really strongly about that... so anything that differed from that viewpoint felt like a homophobic attack when it was just plain ol' personal preferences like it is for any other fandom/pairing.