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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-11-20 05:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #6894 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6894 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
From the way you phrase it, with farms needing all hands, this doesn't seem to be the "eldest daughter, specifically, unlike others, is expected to take care of everyone else" thing like the original anon is talking about? What you say sounds more like "all children are expected to help with chores" which is a different topic from eldest daughters being singled out as caretakers regardless of wealth level

(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
There was a very interesting study that found men who had sisters growing up were far less likely to do their share of housework as adult husbands. So claiming all children get the same amount of chores is dubious.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but that will obviously vary from family to family. I didn't grow up on a farm or anything like that, so our chores were just normal household ones. I've got two siblings, a brother and a sister. We all did our own laundry. I was in charge of cleaning the bathroom, mopping floors and vacuuming. My brother did lawn mowing and seasonal yard work like leaf raking and snow shoveling, though I'd also help with the shoveling because we had a longish driveway and it went faster with two. My sister did dishes and other cleaning when she got old enough, and took over bathroom cleaning because I started doing more cooking since my mother never really liked cooking.

To this day, my brother is one of the tidiest men I've ever known. Not compulsively so, but he keeps his apartment clean, including the bathroom... and that can be a rarity among men, iykyk. I'm a much better cook than he is, but he knows the basics and knows how to shop, meal plan and feed himself without living off of pizza rolls or something lame like that.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
Nobody claimed every child gets the same amount of chores though? One anon said all hands are expected to help out on a farm, and the reply was that "all hands are expected to help" doesn't refute, or address, the original claim about eldest sisters, specifically, across the wealth spectrum, being expected to take care of everyone, and wealth having nothing to do with how much is expected of them.

Idk, it's a bizarro land thread where people seem very resistant to the idea that wealth gives privileges and advantages that people don't get without it.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-21 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, Tom Holland will be a wonderful husband.