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⌈ Secret Post #6896 ⌋

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Re: Relationship advice?

[(Anonymous)]

everyone has good advice but it's very situation specific - e.g. if you don't have a lease/own the place, if you haven't entangled finances, if the law where you live doesn't think he has any right to anything of yours, etc.

first step: nail down your legals and financials. cut him off from any access to your money, close joint accounts, lock credit, see who's legally on the hook for your residence and utilities. if it's your home and he's not even on the lease, look into what you have to do to legally evict him. don't pack up and leave if it's in your name, you don't want to be continually hauled into offices and banks to clear up your business after the fact. get your shit nailed down so that all you have to do is kick him out.

second step: break up. you're done. if you've done step one and he's just squatting at your place, boot him. block him. block anyone he knows who will come at you either to convince you to take him back or abuse you for the breakup. if you need to put up with him as a shitty roommate for a month until your lease clears or whatever, only you know if he's going to be violent or terrible versus a shitty whiny boy. there's lots of resources for avoiding violence and dealing with dangerous domestic situations, but few of them cover the case when the shitty partner is just going to be gross and whiny but not threaten you or make you feel like you're in danger. if you don't fear him but need to be rid of him, get your bases covered, everything in order, and then dump and kick out.