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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-11-23 02:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6897 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6897 ⌋

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Re: Petty vent about family

(Anonymous) 2025-11-23 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
My parents have a similar way of (not) communicating. I also tend to be more sympathetic toward my mom because my dad's got a short fuse and he can be loud with his complaints.
I'm sorry there is tension in the household now. You're doing your best in your situation. It's kind of you to care about your parents.

Not trying to give advice if you're not looking for it, but something I learned in group therapy is that it's not my job to hold other people's feelings/POVs when there is tension/a fight going on.

Please be kind to yourself, and know that you are always allowed to show up for yourself.

Re: Petty vent about family

(Anonymous) 2025-11-24 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you, I appreciate that a lot. And it does help! I know this isn't my fault in any way, but it started off when I went to the living and was surprised they were still here, and said Oh you guys haven't left yet?? I know the fight was going to happen anyway but that was what triggered it so I do feel a little responsible. Also if I had gone out SOONER and said something they might have still argued a little but it would have been early enough they would have gone, maybe.

But that about not holding other people's feelings, does help. Thank you for that.