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⌈ Secret Post #6901 ⌋

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Re: What is your unconventional "I need this in a partner" that you will not negotiate on?

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Not pushy about specific models of therapy, or pushy in general about therapy. I've had some crappy therapy experiences and while I'm not anti-therapy or against seeing a therapist myself when needed, I really don't like hearing "oh IFS/DBT/whatever will change your life," different models are best suited to different people/situations and aren't one size fits all magical cures. There can be an evangelizing attitude sometimes from people who have found a model helpful and can't imagine you wouldn't. Plus, I really can not stand when people try to be an arm chair therapist and diagnose others with unwanted, inaccurate advice.

This is oddly specific, but I've ran into it with friends a few times and once with a partner. I guess you could expand this to pushy medical advice in general, I want my partner to be honest and tell me when they have a concern for my physical or mental health but leave the actual treatment plan between me and the doctor please!