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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-11-29 03:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #6903 ]


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Re: Post-Thanksgiving parental bullshit.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-30 08:33 am (UTC)(link)
I gotta say, your dad doesn't sound much like a great guy at all. When your own parent can't be happy for your accomplishments and small victories and instead keep tearing you down and acting like that's a hilarious joke... yeesh. With parents like that, who needs enemies? I wouldn't tell him much about my life, either. I'd probably avoid speaking to him as much as possible since he can't seem to help acting like an asshole to one of his own kids.

Your relatives might mean well, but they're full of it. It's not unusual for older relatives (even female ones) to still have a lot of internalized misogyny about how men should get to sit back and benefit from women's work, while making nasty, sexist comments. There's this sad mentality that women "need" to just roll over and let everyone else walk over them, or it's... bad somehow? I dunno, man. Like it's our job to be sooooo much better and more patient than men have to be or we're bad mothers/wives/daughters. Meanwhile, the bar for men is in hell.

You deserve your holidays off, doing what you like, resting if you want, having fun if you want, eating if you want, and not cleaning up after people who can't even be bothered to be nice to you. Don't let anyone tell you different.