[ SECRET POST #6904 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6904 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Disappointment.

[(Anonymous)]

DA
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling unsupported and like you've been betrayed by a friend.

I don't know your specifics, but I've been in situations that sound similar. It's always heartbreaking (even if it's small one, pain is pain) to know someone doesn't care for you in ways you want or expect them to. It's also painful to know that if you break ties with someone, you'll likely lose more than just that one friendship.

Be kind to yourself, and try not to write off people who disappoint you as someone you can't rely on or that they don't care about you.

It's just a painful part of life to understand that sometimes even if people mean well, they can't help you.

Also, you never know what will happen once you cut ties with the person you feel betrayed by. Some people might pick the other person's side, but chances are mutual friends will want to keep connections to you, even if things change between who's friends with who.

Feel your feelings nonny. I hope you feel better.

Re: Disappointment.

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you. It means a lot that despite the late night posting, someone cared enough to say something. I suspect I'll be wrestling with it for a while, torn between:

* vent my feelings directly to all guilty parties and go scorched earth
* say nothing but do a slow fade, reorganize my priorities and focus on finding new friends and improving mental/physical health, sadly write off important friendships
* fuck it, cut the bastard off and anyone who sides with him can fuck off and die in a fire
* ghost the "friends" who can't be bothered to even e-mail or text a brief message of acknowledgement and/or sympathy
* reach out again and try to emphasize that I could use some support and someone to talk to about this (too needy?)
* try to get over it, as most people apparently have and if I pretend like I'm not gutted and resentful they'll likely (gratefully, in relief) go along and just forget all about it

Ehhhhh, I don't know. None of those options sound good to me. I wish people didn't fucking suck so much.