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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-12-05 05:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #6909 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6909 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Jolly (YouTube)]



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03. [WARNING for discussion of eating disorders, probably]




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04. [WARNING for discussion of trauma, etc]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of child abuse]




























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Transcript by OP

[personal profile] fscom 2025-12-05 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I am in a very small fandom community and lately there is this one member who keeps posting asking for help (trauma dumping at the same time) but when people offer help they always have an excuse why that won't work and get really aggressive and mean. I've refrained from replying but just the whole thing has soured the fun of the community for me.

I've avoided the community for a few weeks now and am kind of angry that I've let one person ruin my fun escapism but also kind of angry at that one person for ruining my fun escapism.

It's become an intrusive guilt cycle in my head and I just feel kind of dumb about the whole thing.