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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-01-10 02:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #6945 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6945 ⌋

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[Bridgerton]


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[A Court of Thorns and Roses, Ice Planet Barbarians]



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[Of the Devil]


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Re: Also Based on #1

(Anonymous) 2026-01-11 05:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh since everyone is mentioning parents let me tell you mine was a promiscuous bitch in the fucking 80s but the one time I dared mention a crush (want to hold hands with this person level crush) when I was in college he starts yelling that I am a whore and who knows if I wasnt a virgin anymore grrrrrrr! I was in college and had never kissed anyone. I am also a virgin past 30. Being asexual is part of it and in the end glad I didn't fall for my own "I like him so much I could have sex just so he likes me :)" thoughts (the he in question was NOT worth it) but the ways he went about it were not it. And trust me when I say this was the tip of the iceberg. Isn't living amazing.

Re: Also Based on #1

(Anonymous) 2026-01-11 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
DA
Bro, think you unleashed an unresolved trauma core memory for me XD

Realizing I was always afraid to express any sort of desire/interest/liking/crush toward another person because my mom and older sister would make fun of me and call me a whore/slut/attention seeker. Even as a little 4yo having a crush on Zack Morris was a whole parade of embarrassment.
As a child, I thought it was because I was a terrible person. But literally right now, it's probably because my mom got knocked up when she was 16 and was projecting her shame onto her kids.

I likely grew up not interested in romantic relationships and not being sexually curious/active because my upbringing sorta ruined it for me.