[ SECRET POST #6955 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6955 ⌋

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Comments

[tabaqui]

Who is shaming you? I'm sorry that's happening but...that's something I can't say I've ever really seen in fandom. Getting on people FOR kinks, yes, but lack of kinks? Hrmmm....

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, my first reaction was to associate this with the purity culture people who feel attacked or shamed for being straight or not liking smut in their fic but really nobody cares, they're just catering to them. But I thought that was a maybe not very nice take so I'm going to err on the side of believing OP, it's just genuinely not something I've seen in my spaces in fandom.

[philstar22]

I've seen it in some fandoms, I've also seen the reverse of shaming more extreme kinks. Some fandoms are really, really vanilla and others are really, really kinky. It seems like in general people who go against the general trends of a particular fandom are more likely to be shamed.

[tabaqui]

I feel like...people are only going to shame you, if they're going to do it, if you're telling them you're not into...whatever. So if your fandom is very vanilla, nobody is going to care about your lack of sexual hijinks, and if your fandom is super kinky...well...maybe just move on? I dunno. I just have not seen anyone being randomly shame for their lack of kinks unless they were super-loud about it in weird places.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd be more likely to believe OP if they had said 'my fandom' and not 'the rest of fandom' as a whole lol

[(Anonymous)]

I was going to say. I've had people side-eye me for some of the kinks I enjoy reading but I've never once had anyone look at me funny for looking for plain vanilla smut.

[(Anonymous)]

It's the vibe of "get on our level" or "aw that's so cute bless your heart"

Not nearly as nasty or up front as kink shaming, more condescending