[ SECRET POST #6965 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6965 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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06. [SPOILERS for Stranger Things season 5]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of rape]

[Jojo's Bizarre Adventure / JJBA part 4]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia, rape]

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Comments

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

If they're an adult, put a box of tissues in front of them, make them a cup of tea, and go and do the washing-up while they get their feelings under control. It is not your job to be their counsellor, especially if, as seems likely from the awkwardness, they have not done the same as you.

If a child - no idea.

That's all I've got, sorry.

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Yeah, that's about what I got, but what you said is very helpful too. I basically just told them to stop thinking about things that made them upset when I heard them sniffling just earlier. Again, I'm terrible at comforting people... We do drink tea so that would be a good thing to offer.

They're an adult, but also someone who I both halfway raised, as they did their best for me too. We're sorta co-dependent, and I sorta lead them on this trail as well, so I feel responsible. We have each other, and I just hate how much I suck at this shit.

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt That's a lot to bear, anon. Can you access counselling at all? Even just a "listening ear" phone line can help a person feel less isolated. Unsolicited advice, I know.

{hugs, if wanted}

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

SA And maybe you could do with a cup of tea yourself.

Tea quotes: https://theteacupoflife.com/2020/07/tea-quotes.html

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

You're very kind, thank you. I might check out one of those phone lines. And thank you for the tea quotes! They were a really nice read with my morning tea!

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

Certainlyyy they do appreciate you being there for them and as the other anon said it's not your job to be a counsellor. Counsellors well, counsel and therapists do therapy. As a fellow person all you can do is give them the affection and attention you feel for them so it seems to me like youre doing enough.

Re: Questions?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I'll do my best to be there for them. You're right, that's the most I can do right now. Thank you!