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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-02-08 03:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #6974 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6974⌋

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Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-08 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I've learned that a lot of families have a free for all approach with stuff in their house. I've had that discussion with roommates over the years. They genuinely would not care if I ate or drank their stuff because they saw everything as a community pantry/fridge. Very strange conversation for me to have but I've had it multiple times now. Thankfully not recently though.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-09 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
This is baffling to me. I grew up in a free for all house more or less but when living with other people I would never assume that the snacks they bought were for me unless it was explicitly said otherwise and I would always ask before thinking of taking anything. And even when someone would be like 'help yourself' I'd take one and that's it.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-09 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
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Baffling to me as well! I had a friend over recently and they brought their kids and the kids went straight to the kitchen and started opening cupboards and the fridge asking what snacks I had. This was the first time they had been at my house and I had only met them a couple of times before (they were usually in school when I met up with the friend). I stood there baffled for a minute then calmly told them to close the cupboards and please leave the kitchen and that it's polite to ask before going through other peoples stuff. Their parent didn't seem shocked or embarrassed or anything by the behavior and seemed to think it was appropriate.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-09 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my god. I would have, as the kids say, crashed out over that, like my nieces visit me a few times a year and they never once just go through my cupboards like they had a right to it, and the irony there is that I’d stock up on kid safe snacks so they could do that if they wanted but they always asked, and still ask now because it’s as you said: basic manners.

I’d be so fucking embarrassed if I just took something from someone’s else’s kitchen, hell I have a hard time taking some of the communal food in the office which we’re all allowed to eat whenever we want and I never take something if it’s the last one because someone else might want it!

Truly unfathomable behaviour.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-09 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Woooaaaahhh. That is next-level awful behavior. The parent is shameless for allowing that and not immediately stopping them. They sound like they're going to grow up to be just like anon's boyfriend.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

(Anonymous) 2026-02-09 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
My family definitely did as a kid, but I learned in one day once I started college.