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⌈ Secret Post #6982 ⌋

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[fscom]

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[fscom]

I hate the trend of calling men 'daddy' to express attraction. Hate it so much.

[(Anonymous)]

+1000

[(Anonymous)]

It's so fucking gross

[(Anonymous)]

Same. I particularly hate when you're reading a fic with an already ehhhhh sex scene and then WHAM BAM THANK YOU DADDY and I can't back-button out fast enough. Just ew.

[(Anonymous)]

Daddies are hot though. :p

[(Anonymous)]

This is a pet hate of mine too. I don't know if this is appealing to people who have Daddy Issues (tm) or what, but I have a normal, healthy relationship with my father, and "daddy" as a term of sexiness turns my stomach. Noooo thanks.

(Cue a dozen people coming in to assure me that they love the term and have a great relationship with their fathers.)

[greghousesgf]

ugh, I hate it too but unfortunately it's been around for a very long time

[(Anonymous)]

Is this a safe place to mention that I also kind of hate how common “mommy” has become?

I’d even accept DILF/MILF back into the common vocabulary if we could reduce the use of daddy/mommy.

[philstar22]

Yup. I get that kinks are personal. But this is the opposite of a kink for me. Massive squick that leads to instant backbutton.

Is this a new generalization?

[(Anonymous)]

So 'Daddy' has always been a very certain type of man/attraction ime. Do people just use it for any dude they find hot now?

Re: Is this a new generalization?

[(Anonymous)]

I *usually* see it used for older men, BUT there are definitely some people who use it for any man they personally find attractive.

Re: Is this a new generalization?

[(Anonymous)]

I've seen this picture of Brunel described as his "Who's the daddy" pose. https://us2-browse.startpage.com/av/anon-image?piurl=https%3A%2F%2Fmuseum.wales%2Fmedia-dams%2Faec92e08-15f5-3551-b087-b6ed1d68afbf%2Flarge%2F&sp=1771301083T47829f5b0d169eb302422255c0f693e85dbfcebe666cd3a15dca977444cb6753

Entirely justified in that case, I think.

Re: Is this a new generalization?

[(Anonymous)]

Oh myyyyy

Re: Is this a new generalization?

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I'm curious too because I've always seen it used in relation to guys who look a very specific sort of way.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't mind it when it's used in a thirst post, or a post about kink, or one that's already about sex. But the common, casual use of it makes me cringe.

It's their kink, I get it, I am not shaming them for having that kink, but I am noticing that they're spraying it about everywhere, regardless of whether other people wanted to hear about their kinks or not.

In before someone's like "it's not a kink thing" when it's... literally about daddy kink? and daddies being attractive? in exactly the same way people going "mommy" at women is. And if people are somehow using that term without thinking about the kink implications, maybe they should, idk, think about that...

[(Anonymous)]

Same here! It's definitely not something that I personally understand, but used like you described is fine.

Bust just throwing "Daddy 😍" around all the time grosses me out.

I accidentally called my boyfriend "daddy" once when I got my words messed up and was like NO!!!! THE WRONG WORD CAME OUT OF MY MOUTH THAT WAS ***NOT*** WHAT I MEANT TO SAY THERE. Luckily it was just casual conversation but still, it just gives me the ick.

[(Anonymous)]

I hate petnames so much that Baby creeps me out even, but ugh, Daddy it the worst. Like especially when they think warning for Daddy Issues is equivalent to warning that they made it a kink. So not my cuppa tea.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, that's a living room or private chat or nearly-empty theater term. Something I'd say with an intimate group of friends who like to have fun and not take the meaning seriously. You know... hot dude on screen acts rough and gruff and someone shouts "oh hell yeah Daddy!" and everyone heaves a lustful sigh over a silly collective fantasy and feels safe knowing they're not going to be judged.

Wouldn't take it out of a circle of like-minded buddies because *points to all comments above*

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, that and the whole "daddy kink" thing in general does nothing for me, either. And I say this as someone who's crushed on quite a few celebrities who are old enough to be my dad. Even then, I've still never thought to use that term to describe them. I just can't put "daddy" in that context.

[(Anonymous)]

As someone who has been calling their actual Father "Daddy" for 40 years, yeah I hate it too. It just sounds super creepy to me any other way.

[(Anonymous)]

I never thought too much about it until last year. I saw something with an actor I find attractive (can't remember who) and I instantly blurted out, "Zzzzzzzzzaddyyy!"

And then I instantly thought about how Pedro Pascal said the "daddy" memes/jokes about him were weird or uncomfortable or that he didn't get it.
I paused and thought, "Yeah, why would I call a hot guy 'daddy?'"
Guess I just needed a moment to consider my participation in using "daddy" in a sexual/sexually coded way. That or I worked on my daddy issues enough to be able to see that I in fact am not into the whole "call him daddy" thing.