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Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)The more I read in this thread, the more I begin to think this is less about taking 2 seconds to add a tag that people can search for, and more about a moral stance that rejects de-centralizing cis which oh boy fandom is not ready to even talk about yet hahaha
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)No, we're just trying to explain to you that cis is already implied and no one is actually going to do it. If your solution relies on "people should just..." then that's a solution that is never going to happen. People just aren't going to do it.
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)and what it seems to imply in reality to lots of other people - which is often cis/cis, but sometimes surprise vaginal that people here are complaining about -
don't seem to match up.
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)It's not even a point of surprise vagina although that is something that thankfully is getting better as people push back into place the cultural norm of tagging things that are different than canon.
It's the existence of vaginal anything in M/M in the first place. I love that they're tagging it so I can avoid it but why is it there AT ALL? People who want vaginal stuff can go to M/F or F/F. People who want just dicks only have M/M and even that is getting vagina in it. THAT is the issue. Not tagging.
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)"Harry/Draco + cis/cis" would be exactly what you're looking for, and "Harry/Draco + cis/trans" is not what you're looking for. No need to tag their hair color, no need to tag Hermoine who appears in chapter 3 briefly as cis. If a character in a canon is canonically trans but in a ship with a cis person they also fall under "cis/trans" no need to tag them alone as trans, and it's really simple?
M/M, F/F, M/F. Cis/cis, cis/trans, trans/trans. "Cis/cis" and "cis/trans" are both widely popular varieties of slash, popular enough for people who don't like the latter to unfortunately come across all the time and vent about it, so...
But:
"It's the existence of vaginal anything in M/M in the first place. I love that they're tagging it so I can avoid it but why is it there AT ALL? People who want vaginal stuff can go to M/F or F/F. People who want just dicks only have M/M and even that is getting vagina in it. THAT is the issue. Not tagging."
If you're simply morally against trans male fic being considered slash or M/M, that's a whole different thing and you're talking about something completely different than discussing how tags should be used. I wish you had said that at the start so I could not have bothered to make a good faith attempt at the latter.
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)Plus, if your proposed solution is "people should just... (tag trans)" that also is never going to happen because "people should just" doesn't happen, I guess.
Oh well, I'm on neither side of the cis/cis or cis/trans fandom so you have my sympathy about an impossible situation.
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:04 pm (UTC)(link)Descriptors are great and I'm for more of them :)
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)https://archiveofourown.org/works?work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=revised_at&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=Hannibal+%28TV%29&work_search%5Bexcluded_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bcrossover%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=&work_search%5Bwords_from%5D=&work_search%5Bwords_to%5D=&work_search%5Bdate_from%5D=&work_search%5Bdate_to%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&commit=Sort+and+Filter&tag_id=Cannibalism
At least 6,481 works would prove otherwise? And that's only AO3...
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)Hopefully you're not the anon above that thinks vaginas of any kind do not belong in any M/M because obviously a character with a male gender means no vaginas!! because I'd rather not interact with them any more, oof
Re: Do you have any squicks?
(Anonymous) 2026-02-17 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)But I still don't agree it would be any use. People who don't tag the trans/cuntboy content also wouldn't use the cis tags. So the issue remains - the people who won't tag properly won't start just because there's now a cis tag. In general, unless you make certain tags mandatory, the problem will always be the people who refuse to tag their vagina content in slash fic.