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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-02-17 08:22 pm

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Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
https://www.reddit.com/r/Perimenopause/

Very helpful, and you'll hear from a lot of other frustrated women who are dealing with symptoms, unhelpful medical professionals and all sorts of stuff.

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
Cosigned!

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
OP

Thanks. I only just started seeing my OBGYN, and he's listened so far. Just started taking hormones. we'll see if it works and if he continues to listen.

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
You got hormones??! Does he do telehealth? XD

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yes? We tested my levels, and both estrogen and progesterone were really low. I now take estrogen in morning and progesterone at night. My appointments have so far all been in person, but virtual appointments could be available. And the office does have a portal where I could look at the test results and send the doctor questions.

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. Mine said, "Hormones? No way, no how, too many risks. Anyway you'll know you're done when you've been without a period for a year lol. Any questions?"

Me: "Yeah. What did I actually pay you for here?"

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
So, so sorry, that really sucks. There are good OBGYNs out there. I've had lots of bad ones. Took years to get my endo diagnosed and then treated because of bad ones. But I have been able to find good ones.

Honestly that part is what confuses me most. I haven't had a period since 2018, but I still have a cycle. So how do I tell?

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I feel fortunate to have not had issues like endo that made a good OBGYN necessary. Being celibate, I never even had an exam throughout my 30s.

It sounds like you've found one of the few who take women's health seriously, so your suffering might be drawing to a well-earned end overall. Hopefully this will be the norm rather than a fluke for future generations.

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
At least yours has listened 🙄 I've been seeing my obgyn for fibroids since November 2024 and he didn't take my request for a hysterectomy seriously when I had the free time to recover.

Now I've got a full time job and not enough time off to take for recovery if it was an option, but hey at least my womb is intact *sarcasm*

Re: Subreddit rec.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-18 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh. So sorry. I had obgyns like that for years. They first didn't give me any treatment, then just kept insisting that birth control pills and/or shots would work when they clearly weren't. I did finally get a hysterectomy, thankfully.

I'm so sorry. I strongly encourage you to seek out other opinions. There are good ones out there. I really hope you can find one.