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This is truly such a petty thing, but.

I have misophonia pretty bad, and the number one most common thing that gets me is eating/mouth noises. Something like ASMR where they are eating just sends me into an absolute, total utter rage. One of my coworkers sometimes just makes these weird mouth noises and I have to walk away from her when she's doing it because it makes me want to die.

But for some reason, my BIGGEST trigger is the sound of my mom sneezing.

I have never said this to her because obviously she can't help sneezing, but oh my. The sound of her sneeze takes me from chill to absolute rage monster holy shit someone please kill me right now now now, immediately.

She does have a loud sneeze, but so does my dad, and his doesn't bother me. I think the thing with her, is that she draws it out. Instead of ACHOO! and done, it's like, aaaahhhhHHHHHAAACCCHHHOOOOoooooaaahhhhuuuggggggghhhhh

And then if it's multiple sneezes in a row, it just gets progressively worse. It's so loud I hear it clearly in my room with the door shut, and it's so awful. I would NEVER say anything to her about it but I just reeeaaallly wish she would muffle it a little bit, instead of seeming to intentionally being as loud and dramatic about it as possible.

Honestly, loud, drawn out, dramatic sneezing drives me crazy. I know some folks can't help being loud, but it might be that the ones who pissed me off with that were just terrible people who loved causing drama.

The thing that puts me in a rage is snot sucking. Had a coworker that did this to aggressive degrees daily... I had to move to the kitchen to have my morning yogurt. It got so bad that one time I had to stand in the back of a church at someone's funeral so that I could step outside when people (understandably) started having runny noses. (No, I don't say anything. Only an absolute dick would.) Ugh. I'm trying to get better about it though.

I will just say that as a very loud sneezer, I have trued so hard to muffle or shorten them but alas. I am also a loud hiccuper and I hate it.

But I also have Misophonia so I absolutley unserstand where you are coming from. Mouth noises are the worrrrrst. My roommate does this thing where they crunch loudly, then just stop chewing for a bit, then crunch more, repeat. The noise bothers me but then the randomness of it on top sends me into a totally irrational rage.

you better never hear my dad sneeze

I have powerful sneezes but they don't tend to be LONG.

For me the worst just physically stomach-churning noises are scraping-- ceramic scraping, nails against most fabrics... I hate when I put on a journaling video and instead of just talking about tips, useful spreads, etc, I discover it's an asmr thing and someone RUBS THEIR HANDS ALL OVER THE LINEN COVER, it makes me downright sick.

Mouth/food noises are not all created equal. Wet crunching is the worst-- apples are the biggest offender but celery is close and iceberg lettuce isn't that different. My mother eats an apple basically every morning and she WILL wait until the TV is on so that there's some other noise to try and cover any eating sounds, which is all I can ask, but oh man. Like I can't tell her to stop eating apples! But they really are the WORST food to hear someone eat for me. A dry crunch is fine but the wet crunch is Bad.

i have this big time. there's an employee at my current job who sits behind me and loudly smacks her gum for nearly 8 hours straight. if i get up and walk to the other end of the room, i can still hear it. drives me fucking nuts. i put in ear plugs to give myself a break and lower my blood pressure. i also had an employee at my previous job who sat behind me and sucked on hard candy the entire day as loudly as possible.

i wouldn't have a problem if these people were sucking and chewing quietly with their mouths closed but they're doing it with their mouths wide open and it's loud as fuck. it's the lack of self awareness and lack of respect for others in the workplace that really drives me crazy. unfortunately, they seem to follow me wherever i go.

Oh, no, that is awful. You have my sympathies. :(

I hate any vocalized sneezing. For God's sake, "achoo" was never meant to be said as a real word while you sneezed, it was just chosen as the best way to depict a sneeze in writing.

That's so weird to me, the vocalized sneezing. But I know what you mean because I just sneeze. There's a sound to it, but I don't put lungpower into it the way some people do. Like... are people actually going "AHHHHHHHHH" and then launching into the sneeze? What the hell for? I don't have misophonia and still think that's dumb.

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