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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-03 04:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #6997 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6997 ⌋

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Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

(Anonymous) 2026-03-04 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
My mom, no. We're not estranged, and I try not to focus on her failures as a parent because it won't do anyone any good now, but it's not a good relationship. A lifetime of bad habits and bad choices has left her sick, frail, poor, married to an emotionally abusive man she can't afford to leave - and I'm on government disability and can barely keep myself afloat, so the help I can provide for her is limited. She doesn't blame me for the way her life turned out (which is good because I'd tell her to go to hell if she did), but she wants someone to come and save her, and nobody is going to, and it makes me sick to think about her dying gradually, five hundred miles away, with nothing to look forward to and nobody there who truly cares for her.

My father and I are familial life partners. We've always been each other's closest companion and dearest friend. We're both ace and neurodivergent, so it works for us. But I think about his death like a place where all the light in the universe stops. More accurately, I try not to think about it. Is it a "good" relationship? I don't know. Depends on your definition, I guess.