[ SECRET POST #6997 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6997 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

[(Anonymous)]

I made a really long response and had to delete XD

I'm 40, and I'd say the last decade has been relatively decent. We don't argue, but we're not close. I've more or less made peace with understanding that my relationship with my parents will be relatively cordial but not close. I think they want a closer loving relationship (one I wanted most of my life), but I understand everything I do will be in service to them. Whether or not I will feel seen and loved unconditionally is not guaranteed and I don't want to subject myself to feeling used and unseen for trying to foster a family I've always wanted again.
A lifetime of chasing that and doing things for people in hopes of finally getting validation has taught me to be cautious. Especially my parents.

They don't see a human being. They see opportunities that they can benefit from.
And I know they love me, but it's a limited sort of love.

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

[(Anonymous)]

That's sad and I'm sorry, nonny. But you're incredibly wise to have figured this out. Some people never do, so they never stop chasing the unconditional love and approval that their parents aren't capable or willing to give, and it's even sadder.