case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-03 04:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #6997 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6997 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



__________________________________________________



02.
[The Last DJ / Global Shuffle Dance Music @ Youtube]



__________________________________________________



03.



__________________________________________________



04.



__________________________________________________



05.



__________________________________________________



06.



__________________________________________________



07.






















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 22 secrets from Secret Submission Post #999.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

(Anonymous) 2026-03-04 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually liked my mom as a person, and I could see why other people would like my dad and I didn't hate him exactly, but they were both addicts, my dad was a controlling, literally crazy (schizophrenic) asshole to my mom and me, and my mom was also super traumatized to the point that when I was eleven or so I went "damn it's like you want to make yourself miserable" during an argument about why the fuck she wanted to move back in with my dad, and she started crying.

But they weren't as bad as the conservative Christian nutjob or WASP perfectionist parents I saw fucking up friends and classmates, so it could've been worse.

They both believed that helping others actually mattered, so my mom calling other parents and telling them "hey your kid's staying with us until you kick out the asshole abusing her, don't worry, she's safe and fed," and going to feed the birds so we could cut fishing line off their feet, or my dad taking me with him to hand out food with Food Not Bombs and to environmental protests, meant I saw their good sides too. But they were too fucked up to be great parents and made each other and hence me miserable a lot.

And their addictions/illnesses and deaths were absolutely horrible and traumatizing.

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

(Anonymous) 2026-03-04 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, anon. My parents also had issues (less than yours) that meant they weren't mentally or emotionally prepared to be good parents. It's mind boggling how much damage it can cause when someone who hasn't figured out their own shit tries to have a family and then the problem snowballs.