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⌈ Secret Post #7049 ⌋

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I don't have patience with people like your partner. If he's "a little sensitive about stuff like this" then maybe he ought to be more considerate of other people first. People who are thoughtless blabbermouths don't get to boohoo about THEIR sacred feelings when they've screwed up and hurt someone else.

If* you think he's able to empathize with you on this, I'd emphasize how much his news-spreading exposed you to disappointment and embarrassment about not having better news to share, and now every person who asks you how the interview went (meaning well, of course) is re-opening the wound for you. That's a shitty thing to do to them AND you, because they don't want to hurt you like that.

* That's a big "if", because he hasn't exactly shown himself to be great about considering your needs and feelings so far.

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