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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-04-28 06:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #7053 ]


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Kinks

(Anonymous) 2026-04-29 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Do you find yourself getting more or less kinky as you get older? Any new ones recently? Any old ones you lost interest in? How has it changed over time?
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Re: Kinks

[personal profile] philstar22 2026-04-29 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Less thinking about sex in general since hormone levels have dropped and started menopause, though more than I was before I started hormone therapy. But when I do think about sex, it is about the same level of kink as before.

Honestly the biggest changes was when I discovered kink outside of what I'd gleaned from fics my mom's romance novels. My early kinks were very stereotypical ones fitting into traditional gender roles because I didn't know other things existed. Once I got a glimpse of other stuff, my tastes changed pretty quickly. Slash helped a lot with that since there were men in both roles, so I'd end up either imagining myself watching or relating more to the more dominant character.

I guess over time my tastes just got more settled. I figured out what I liked, what worked for me best.

Re: Kinks

(Anonymous) 2026-04-29 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I haven't had sex in decades so I don't know.
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Re: Kinks

[personal profile] philstar22 2026-04-29 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Do you not think about it? Not have fantasies? YOu don't have to have sex to have kinks.

Re: Kinks

(Anonymous) 2026-04-29 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
I have fantasies all the time but it's been so long since I actually did anything that I might not react the same way I used to.

Re: Kinks

(Anonymous) 2026-04-29 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
My fantasy kinks and rl kinks are verrrry different.