[ SECRET POST #7081 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7081 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Recovered people-pleasers, how did you work on establishing boundaries with people you love?

[(Anonymous)]

Sometimes you just need to deliver the truth (firmly, not savagely), and just let people be mad, especially over something relatively small like this. Not to diminish your frustrations, I just mean it's best he deal with disappointment over a minor thing now, and not freak out if you're ever in a situation... good or bad... where access to you is extremely limited or just nonexistent. But also... talk about it like two mature adults. It's possible the relationship is done, and it's equally possible that talking things through could make it stronger.

Re: Recovered people-pleasers, how did you work on establishing boundaries with people you love?

[(Anonymous)]

^This. Setting boundaries can sometimes result in discomfort, but it's better to let off steam and improve the relationship rather than letting resentment build up and blow up.