[ SECRET POST #106 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #106 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: 2

[(Anonymous)]

Secret Maker

Sorry to hear. I never found one either.

Re: 2

[thepinkangel.livejournal.com]

I met my father for the first time in December. And I have someone who's like a favorite uncle. Both of those help. Somewhat. I hope you have things or people who help.

I'm sorry that you didn't either. I'd hoped that someone found somebody! *laughs*

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[some-kat.livejournal.com]

I'm glad you got to meet him, then. I hope it was a good meeting. Mm...I've still got my mother (who...yeah, I just don't feel like going into those details) and my older brother who's in the national guard. Lots of friends and hobbies help.

My father didn't leave until I was 15, so I'm not sure if that's better or worse. *laughs* I'm grateful for the time I had with him, but it meant there was more to miss. I don't know.

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[thepinkangel.livejournal.com]

I'd imagined meeting him all my life. And...it went better than I ever pictured it. It was still very tense and awkward. I never did tell him how much his absence affected me. I feel a bit like a coward for not having done so, but...I didn't really feel I needed to tell him. I still don't. As for my mother...I despise her very existence. Needless to say, I don't particularly have good views about family e_e;;;
My uncle figure was actually the last shrink I had *laughs* But we really care about each other, so we still maintain contact even though our professional relationship is over. It...feels really WEIRD to have a man care for me as a family member. But...good. It's just awkward to tell him mushy things like "I love you" since I've never really done it before XD; The most I can manage is asking for hugs. But...what can ya do >.>;
It took me 20 years to REALLY and TRULY get over the whole father thing, which isn't to say that it won't continue to affect me the rest of my life. Joy. [/sarcasm]

Augh... I'm really sorry... It's not about what's "better" or "worse," there's no such thing when it comes to the tragedies of people's lives. It was hard on you, that's enough. No need to classify it and weigh it against the sadnesses of others. But I can see how him leaving later would be hard, too...