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[ SECRET POST #1126 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1126 ⌋

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137. http://i46.tinypic.com/n324rc.jpg

To me, the fact that you've gone to make an apology secret for that shows you are a good person.

Don't give up.

I can identify with this a little too close for comfort. :/

All that still doesn't really make you a bad person. If you can bring joy to someone else, that really does mean a lot, especially on a jackass place like the internet.

Let's get a drink sometime. I'm sure we'd have much to share.

You know what all that makes you? A person.

My thoughts exactly. People have good and bad sides... if you're really unhappy with how you perceive yourself, bring out the positive parts out more, OP.

None of that makes you a bad person. It makes you human, and, in some cases with the things you listed, probably just a little insecure. If you can make things a little better for someone, you should be proud, regardless of what sort of person you are. I mean, come on, you're defending someone--you can't be that horrible.

Anyway, I'm willing to bet you're not a bad person in the least. None of what you described is weird or abnormally "bad." You've got strengths too, and you helped someone. So give yourself a little credit.

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(Anonymous) - 2010-02-05 05:03 (UTC) - Expand

Don't be so hard on yourself, Anon. We all struggle like this inside.

We're all like this.

OP, you made mistakes, but the fact that you're admitting it is much more than can be said about some people. You're a human being, you have faults and flaws, just like the rest of us. But you have a positive side in you as well, and the person you become entirely depends on the side that you encourage. See this realization as a good thing. I do :)

So change what you don't like about yourself. That's all there is to it. It'll take some time, but patience and effort will pay off.

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soymade.livejournal.com - 2010-02-05 06:06 (UTC) - Expand

Life is a journey, OP, not a destination. Just keep trying to become the best that you can be -- the fact that you worry so strongly about your current self means that you're open to change. That's my favorite quality in a person.

Sounds like you hate yourself, OP, and honestly I kind of want to hug you.

If the things you've done -- the cruelty and pettiness and all -- bother you, then cruelty isn't really your nature. You sound more hurt and frightened than actually mean.

Can you start to be nicer to yourself? Forgive yourself a little? I really believe it'll help if you do.

I don't believe you, the fact that you have even gone to the lengths of making a secret to apologise is proof.

ALso you sound sane in your secret which cannot be said for a lot of others, and in your secret you are making coherant arguments.

TL:DR- you don't sound like a batshit fan, just someone with an alterantive opinion

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(Anonymous) - 2010-02-05 05:16 (UTC) - Expand

I don't see any deception here. Sounds like you're a human being. No worries.

Everyone has flaws but so what? You seem nice enough and you did help someone, that has to count for something.

Maybe you've been leading yourself on, not the anon you defended that day?

Wow that's a lot of self-hate you have going there.

Your kinks are no sicker than anyone elses. Everyone gets their arguments picked apart from time to time. Sometimes unfairly.

Anyway, since you are looking for someone to pick up the bat and help you beat yourself up, I'll do it. Cut it out. Stop thinking you either have to perfect or you are terrible. Let yourself be human. You are doing no one, especially not yourself, any good when you tear yourself apart.

Forgive yourself.

I really want to give you a hug. You seem like a great person.

You're not a bad person, OP. Bad people aren't aware of their flaws, and don't care what effect they have on other people.

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(Anonymous) - 2010-02-05 05:27 (UTC) - Expand

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(Anonymous) - 2010-02-05 13:52 (UTC) - Expand

(hugs) I hate to tell you this, Anon, but we're all like that on some level—everyone has a public face of some kind. It's not how you present yourself that counts; its who you are, and how that reflects in your actions. You defended someone else in a place where you've admitted that you're more yourself than off-line.

I'd say that makes you a good person.

I can identify so fucking much with this.

You are not alone. I am not alone.

Thanks, anon.

You remind me of someone I'm very close to. while I love them, I can't stand their (self-indulgent) self-depreciating attitude.

So, guess what OP, this is my attempt to have a talking-to with the fight you have against yourself.

SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELF.

Jesus Christ, you're just the most prettiest unique and beautiful snowflake in the whole sparkly world, aren't you? Excuse me while I inform the world to end itself, PRONTO, for your sake. Heaven FORBID you allow yourself to be a shade of gray (LIKE THE REST OF US), no, everything has to be blindingly white or pitch black in your book of morals.

I couldn't give a fuck if you do good things or bad things, what I give a fuck about is that you obviously lack the conviction to stand behind your actions. Grow up and get it together.

You got ehough warm and cuddly comments from people; I hope you try VERY hard to actually listen to what they have to say instead of pitying yourself. Your actual secret made ME want to come and leave a warm-fuzzy comment; however, seeing your replies to some people's comments proved you just enjoy wallowing and you seem to lack a basic comprehension of what makes us human.

I know being rude is RUDE but I see no reason to be nice.
I do wish you the best of luck. You're not headed anywhere if you keep waffling on everything you do will also insisting on making yourself seem as pathetic as possible (AND still maintaining that you're such a ~special~ case of being fucked up).

Good luck OP, you fucking need it. Take this as the sign you need; anonymous comments have now come full circle for you.

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(Anonymous) - 2010-02-05 23:07 (UTC) - Expand

Hi there, welcome to being human. We hope you enjoy your stay.

Don't worry anon, everyone's like this. Hell, I'm like this. You're just only focusing on the worst parts of you, which is what I did. You'll grow out of it, become comfortable with yourself. It'll seem like forever, but you'll get out. From someone who once felt like you (and sometimes still does), I think you're a good person.

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