[ SECRET POST #1126 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1126 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

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[x-saria.livejournal.com]

Maybe you feel like because you don't know your fandom friends in real life that they can't judge you as much? In terms of, they don't see you on a regular basis. Or maybe you believe that you don't want to burden the people directly involved in your life?

I'm not sure, but Anon, if you believe you're depressed you should seek help.

[(Anonymous)]

Fandom friends are easier to talk to, sometimes just because you don't have to look them in the eye the next day.
Telling the people you have to live with is just that much harder sometimes. Especially when you have to deal with whatever you told them looming over your real life relationships afterwards.
As long as you're getting support from somewhere it doesn't matter who's providing it, and maybe some day you'll feel comfortable enough to confide in real-life friends again. But sometimes it's just easier to tell your problems to someone you can't *see*. Distance makes it feel safer because you don't have physical cues or judgements in the mix as well.
Don't worry, anon. You're not the first, last or only person who's ever done this. Your RL friends will get over it. They're probably more worried about you than hurt.

[tocasia.livejournal.com]

If you really think you are depressed, you should seek help, or at least do some research to find some peace of mind.

[soymade.livejournal.com]

IA with the comment above mine. Therapy is especially good for when you have bad feelings but don't quite understand them, or are confused by them.

For me, sometimes even just writing a stream-of-consciousness, anything I can think of that relates to my state of mind essay-type-thing is enormously helpful in understanding what's going on. From there, it's much easier to figure out what is best to do, for yourself and others.

Good luck, OP.

[asimaiyat.livejournal.com]

I had a phase like that and it was, um, kind of incredibly destructive in the long term. I lost most of my RL friendships. (luckily that was years ago and I have new ones now!) Please take care of yourself and take steps to reach out to people, k?

[riveryklown.livejournal.com]

Yeah, real life people are very... actively involved in your (general you) life.
In the sense that... Now I know you think you're depressed. In fact, we all do. And we can give you some advice, or not, and the next moment we'll be away from the computer forgetting all about you.
Real life people will have expectations of you. They will want you to work on not being depressed or seeking help if it is a real problem etc. They can be really annoying :) But that doesn't mean they don't understand.

Unless of course they are actualfax SOBs and you have reason to suspect they wouldn't understand at all and would be horrible towards you. In that case you need new friends.