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⌈ Secret Post #1126 ⌋

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On the one hand, it seems morally reprehensible. Certainly if the OP is WISHING suffering on someone, I can't get on board with that.

But on the other hand, people can't control their kinks, and sometimes people find real-life awful things hot. I know someone who was disgusted with hirself for being turned on by an article about a victim of gang-rape, and I can't feel anything but fiercely protective of this friend, especially because of how much ze beat hirself up about it.

I would say, as long as you are aware of how unfortunate or horrible these events are and treat them as such (and, even though I have no airtight argument for it, I would include "refraining from wishing those things to occur IRL" in this category), then you are doing fine.

This reminds me of that anorexia fetish secret from a few weeks ago. It's easy to tell people that what gets them off is "wrong", but people can't really help what turns them on. It's just a question of how you treat those fantasies, and of course being a good person to the outside world.

anorexia fetish? link plz?

Judging from all the people who are like "OMG HOT," I think this is less an uncontrollable fetish and more failure to understand that no, certain RPF scenarios should not in fact be squeed into being by the fangirl hivemind.

Then again, I think RPF is both disrespectful and indicative of serious ethical ignorance, so what do I know.

and i ask for a link to the anorexia fetish secret (or if you remember about what day) because i think this was my secret and i never got to see it. ):

Thing is, I was reading about secure children's institutes in the UK, which work very hard to rehabilitate the violent and disturbed children who end up there, and one of the things they do is try to give them more healthy (less violent) masturbation fantasies. And, well, there's a lot of stuff like that. It just makes me think that, while you can't directly control what turns you, you can control it to some extent by choosing what to fantasise about: if you choose to fantasise about prison rape, you're likely to find it hotter and less terrible than if you don't.

This is a late response but..

Thank you for this comment. ;; Makes me feel better about myself.

I'm glad. <3

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