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fandomsecrets2010-02-05 03:44 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2010-02-05 03:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #1127 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1127 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Takarazuka theatre, the play - Elisabeth, actress - Mizu Natsuki as Death]
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[Jekyll]
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[Men who stare at goats / How I Met Your Mother]
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[Zachary Quinto and Jim Parsons]
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[Metalocalypse]
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[Genevieve Cortese & Danneel Harris]
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[Lady Gaga, Yu-Gi-Oh the Abridged Series]
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(Bonnie Wright)
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[In Plain Sight]
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[North and South / Pride and Prejudice]
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(Secretary))
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[Freddy Krueger]
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(Peep Show)
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[Kimi ni Todoke]
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[Hollyoaks]
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[Relic Hunter]
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[Dragonlance Chronicles]
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[Sarah Vowell]
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[Transformers]
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[he's just not that into you]
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[Disney XD's I'm in The Band]
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[Legend of the Seeker]
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[Monty Python (John Cleese and Michael Palin)]
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166. [[SPOILERS for Inglourious Basterds]]
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167. [[SPOILERS for Heroes]]
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168. [[SPOILERS for SOMETHING IDFK WHAT]]
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169. [[SPOILERS for Mass Effect 2]]
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170. [[SPOILERS for Dragon Age: Origins]]
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171. [[SPOILERS for NCIS]]
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172. [[SPOILERS for Bones]]
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173. [[SPOILERS for Smash Bros Brawl]]
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174. [[SPOILERS for Dr Who]]
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175. [[SPOILERS for Princess and the Frog]]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #161.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2010-02-06 01:52 pm (UTC)(link)Obviously, I feel terrible about what happened to your brother, and about the second-hand impact it has on you. However, as a lesbian, I just can't help but notice your link isn't "my brother was raped so I can't stand to read non-con right now," but rather "my brother was gay!raped so I can't stand to read about gay relationships right now."
Someone in my immediate family - he's straight - was sexually assaulted by a man once, and he told me that's why he finds it disgusting when I kiss my girlfriend, like that's a good reason and I should understand. But no one ever makes that reasoning about straight people, because no one ever (subconsciously or not) thinks of a straight person as an inherent representative for the entire straight community or for all heterosexual relationships.
This secret, the choice you made to link the rape explicitly to "gayness", comes across as very homophobic to me.
(And for the record, before anyone - especially anyone straight - jumps on this, yes, I have experienced rape first-hand. It was a heterosexual rape, and I can't watch rape scenes on TV without being triggered, but it would never occur to me to stop reading your average straight romance story, or to avoid straight fiction. Maybe because I'm not in the privileged position where you can conceivably do that in the first place, but whatever.)
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(Anonymous) 2010-02-06 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)Even if I wanted to avoid hetero stuff after having been raped by a man, there's no way I could. It's everywhere. Even if there's no explicit love scene, pretty much every movie or TV show has a romantic plot or subplot. Hell, I couldn't even watch the freaking commercials!
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(Anonymous) 2010-02-08 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)