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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-06-08 06:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #1253 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1253 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 14 pages, 347 secrets from Secret Submission Post #179.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 - too big ], [ 1 2 - repeat ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - doing it wrong ].
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(Anonymous) 2010-06-08 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
How does that prove he's right? Anyone would be upset at the idea of being permanently cut off from part of their life.

I suggest you ditch the shrink and find some real friends to help you work through your issues (and by "real," I don't necessarily mean "offline," I mean "the kind who actually care about you and don't charge you by the hour").

(Anonymous) 2010-06-08 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I disagree, the general public sometimes makes assumptions about psychology that are horrendously incorrect, and friends are enablers more often than not. I say ditch the shrink for certain, but continuing to see a licensed professional is important.

(Anonymous) 2010-06-15 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
2nd, your friend can support you but they are not your personal shrinks

(Anonymous) 2010-06-09 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, it's impossible to say whether or not the shrink should be ditched, because we don't know enough about OP's issues or how much has been disclosed to said shrink. For example, if OP really has obsessive issues with fandom that are preventing them from functioning in the real world (ie, they literally don't move from the computer, they're failing to maintain their responsibilities, job, home, physical and mental health, etc.), then yeah - maybe the shrink has a point. We don't know either way, and suggesting that the shrink is the bad guy because fandom is good for you, can possibly be undermining to OP.

no just no

(Anonymous) 2010-06-09 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Let the professionals do their fucking jobs. Maybe OP should consider another, but you nor I know enough about this situation! Do you know how stupid it is to tell people to 'ditch the shrink' and use friends for issues? God, fuck you. What if the friends are part of the problem? Did you even consider that?