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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-07-18 04:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #1293 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1293 ⌋

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[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-18 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Beauty isn't everything. They have problems just like anyone else.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Like if they should wear Yves Saint-Laurent or Chanel!

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
of course, because pretty people are also rich people. durr.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Because attractive equals rich, naturally!

(Anonymous) 2010-07-19 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
if only it did.

It's so hard being pretty and poor. :(

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-18 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, because someone being pretty naturally means they're rich as well.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
IKR, like choosing which hot guy/girl to go on a date with tonight. It must be so difficult getting hit on and being told you're gorgeous all the time.

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-18 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
For one, I wasn't talking about myself, so chill the fuck down.

Secondly, that's incredibly ignorant. Just because you're attractive does not necessarily mean you're going to get dates or even be liked period. I've seen plenty of girls who could've been models, and I wonder why they're single and/or have very few friends. But they have the personality of a viper, and it's very easy to figure out why nobody goes near them. Beauty might get someone's attention, but that won't sustain the relationships if there's no other redeeming qualities to them.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Also, lets not forget jealousy.

My sister is very beautiful, and also a lovely person. I used to watch the reactions of other girls when she walked into a room and weep for humanity. D:

And men who fancy you but know you're not interested in them? Yeah, they always behave well. Always. Don't you know it's all flowers and chocolates for an attractive woman, dudes!

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed 100%. God, the things you hear some women say about a girl just because she's good-looking. "Oh, she only got the job because she's cute" and the like. I'm always amazed at the things jealousy will make women say.

[identity profile] thornblossom.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
If women in real life direct even a quarter of the hatred towards real attractive girls/women that they do in fandom, I fear for the pretty girls of this world. Seriously. :|

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Word. D:

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Also, lets not forget jealousy.

My sister is very beautiful, and also a lovely person. I used to watch the reactions of other girls when she walked into a room and weep for humanity. D:

And men who fancy you but know you're not interested in them? Yeah, they always behave well. Always. Don't you know it's all flowers and chocolates for an attractive woman dudes!

[identity profile] regendy.livejournal.com 2010-07-18 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, yes, because clearly getting hit on is a always a positive experience. Unwanted attention is a myth!

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
That happens all the time!? Wow, I should move to America because I'm pretty and I don't get that treatment all the time and I get hit on mostly by creepers.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-18 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're asexual or a lesbian, it's kind of a pain in the ass to be constantly objectified by men. I go to a goddamn gay club and the few straight men there make a beeline for me, assuming that because I own a pair of skinny jeans and heels I must be looking for one of them, and they don't back the hell off. I'm not even particularly pretty, I'm just pretty for a lesbian nerd or something. Rachel Maddow is way cuter than me ffs.

Yeah, I love sexual harrassment even in places that I think are safe spaces for me. It's a lot of fun. I'm sure you'd have liked having your ass grabbed all through high school too, feeling like you weren't capable of fitting in or being popular, still bullied, but on top of that, getting felt up when you couldn't do anything about it because you were the little antisocial girl the VPs thought deserved a bullying or two.

(Anonymous) 2010-07-19 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my God, what planet do you live on? Please tell me, I really want to go there!

[identity profile] imnotasquirrel.livejournal.com 2010-07-18 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it depends on what the pretty people complain about. Because yes, of course attractive people have problems just like everyone else. But admittedly it is annoying as hell to hear attractive people complain about being attractive. Every time I heard that one woman from Lost (Evangeline Lilly?) bitch about how hard she had it as an attractive woman, I wanted to throw something.

I know that the people here aren't necessarily saying that, I just think that some people tend to conflate the two issues with each other.

ETA: I'm not saying that being attractive doesn't come with its own set of problems, e.g. in certain professions being drop-dead gorgeous may make it more difficult for people to take you seriously, but overall, attractive people do have it a lot easier in society. And it's grating to hear them say that they would rather be more plain-looking because being pretty is SO HARD.
Edited 2010-07-18 23:24 (UTC)

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no, I'm not saying that pretty people don't sometimes have an annoying habit of complaining, "Oh, it's so hard to be gorgeous." I agree 100% with you on that one.

I just... the mentality that seems to be prevalent in here of "if you're attractive, your life is perfect and you have no reason to bitch" is a bit... unnerving? It makes me really wonder, y'know?

[identity profile] imnotasquirrel.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, I totally get what you're saying. The earlier comments responding to your post had me smh.

[identity profile] bleed-peroxide.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
It's easy to talk shit when you're anon.