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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-09-15 05:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #1351 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1351 ⌋

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[identity profile] cykotyks.livejournal.com 2010-09-15 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
/facepalms forever

That phrase. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Let's see, there's bi-curious, which means that you're open to a same-sex relationship, even though it's not your primary sexual orientation. Following that, "trans-curious" would then mean that you would be open to, uh, "trying on" a different gender, even though it falls outside of your gender identity. "Trans" is not a sexuality. It has nothing to do with sexuality. Being trans(gender) refers to ones gender identity (and therefore expression) falling outside of the gender assigned to them at birth.

Now, transvestites, on the other hand...are crossdressers. People who crossdress are generally comfortable with their gender, and often do not identify with the gender they express while crossdressing. Also, crossdressing includes transvestism, which is generally a fetish form. They are not one and the same.

Transgenderism and transvestism are two different things. Most of what's being talked about, especially here, is transgenderism. Wanting to have a fling with a trans person simply makes you a chaser, and I think it'll be a little difficult to find a trans person who is okay with you fetishizing their identity.